Nashville, Tennessee — Bunnie Xo and country music star Jelly Roll are taking significant strides towards starting a family together, as revealed through Bunnie’s recent memoir, Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic. The 46-year-old podcast host and author shared intimate details about her parenting journey, including their plans to welcome twins via a surrogate.
In her memoir, Bunnie, whose real name is Alyssa DeFord, expressed her excitement about their decision, emphasizing the stability they have achieved both financially and emotionally over the past decade. "Now that we’re finally stable, we’re talking about the future—including growing our family," she wrote. Their journey has now reached a pivotal moment with the couple securing a surrogate who she describes as "the sweetest woman ever." Bunnie plans to begin the process of in vitro fertilization (IVF) shortly.
The prospect of motherhood brings a mix of anticipation and nervousness for Bunnie, who has long awaited this chapter in her life. Understanding the responsibility of raising children, she reflects on wanting to provide them with the best possible upbringing. "I’ve waited this long to have kids with someone I knew would be a great father," she noted, underscoring her commitment to creating a nurturing environment.
Bunnie openly addressed societal perceptions regarding their decision to start a family later in life. While some may disapprove, she clarified that external opinions hold little weight. "Some people frown upon our decision to bring babies into this world at our age, and I could give a f–k," she stated. Her conviction stems from a desire to raise their children in a loving atmosphere, offering them what she and Jelly Roll may have lacked.
With advancements in IVF technology, Bunnie feels hopeful about their path to parenthood. She acknowledges the remarkable support of their surrogate, whom she describes as selfless, adding, "With how much IVF has advanced, we’ll be able to make our baby dreams come true."
During a recent interview, Bunnie discussed the challenges she’s faced on her journey to parenthood. She believes her experiences are not just personal, but a way to advocate for other women who navigate similar circumstances. "I think everything happens for a reason," she stated, reflecting on her past choices and current endeavors with IVF.
Bunnie is also a stepmother to Jelly Roll’s children from a previous relationship—17-year-old Bailee Ann and 9-year-old Noah Buddy. Her extensive journey through IVF has been a testament to her resilience, acknowledging the strength of the women who endure similar experiences. "They are freaking warriors… my hat goes off to these women," she said, highlighting the solidarity found in the community.
As Bunnie and Jelly Roll prepare for the next chapter of their lives, they are focused on building a family founded on love. Their commitment and determination pave the way for a hopeful future, as they look forward to welcoming new lives into their world.